How I failed my daughter and a simple path to wealth

Literally since the day she was born people have been complementing my daughter.  Her looks, her brains, her charm (she takes after her mother) and her behavior.

For that last one I sometimes get credit.  Not that I deserve it.  Mostly I’ve stood by and simply watched in awe and tried not to get in the way.

A few years back I actually lost a friend over this.  He was so insistent I take credit and so upset when I didn’t, he hasn’t spoken to me since.  But the truth is the truth.

In fact, I have this vision of the Birth Angel approaching God in ‘91 and saying, “Hey there, God, we’re planning to send a little baby girl down to that Collins guy.”

And God saying, “Ah, man.  Really?  Did I authorize this?  I did??  Guess this day hadda come.  Well, send him the easiest, best one you’ve got.  He can’t handle much.”

And so, I got Jessica.

You might be thinking I’m overstating this.  Not so.  In the one area I actively tried to influence her, I failed miserably.  Money.

See, I hold a few core beliefs.  One is that this whole civilization thing has been a huge mistake and we’d all be better off as hunter/gatherers.  (More on that in a future post.)

Another is that, since we do live in this complex, technical world you had best learn about money.  Money is the single most important, effective tool in navigating it.

I started her early.  Allowance.  Envelopes for spending, saving and charity.  “The Richest Man inBabylon.”  Checking account.  Saving account.  Mutual fund.  Endless conversations (ok lectures) on the subject.  What child wouldn’t love this stuff?

Now she’s in college and, home from one recent break, I brought it up again.  She stopped me.  “Dad,” she said “I know this is important.  I appreciate money.  I know I need it.  I just don’t want to have to think about it and manage it.”

Yikes.  The one thing I tried to instill….

But then I thought about it.  This likely describes most people.  Financial geeks like me are the aberration.  Sane people don’t want to be bothered.  So is there a simple way for folks who have better things to do with their time?

Yep, there is.  Below is what I created for her, and she’ll get better results with it than the vast majority active money managers.


The simple path to wealth

It starts with nine basics.  She doesn’t have to read any further than these to make it work.  Just do it.

  1.  Avoid fiscally irresponsible people.  Never marry one or otherwise give him access to your money.
  2. Avoid money managers.  It’s your money and no one will care for it better than you.
  3. Avoid debt.
  4. Save a portion of every dollar you get.
  5. The greater the percent of your income you save and invest, the sooner you’ll have F-You money.  Try 50%.  With no debt, this perfectly doable.
  6. Put this money in the Vanguard Total Stock Market Index Fund (VTSAX)   This is the fund you already own, so just keep adding to it.
  7. Realize the market and the value of your shares will sometimes drop dramatically.  People all around you will panic.  They’ll be screaming Sell, Sell, Sell.  Ignore this.  Even better:  Buy more shares.
  8. When you can live off the dividends VTSAX provides you are financially free.
  9. The less you need, the more free you are.

Willing to go a step further?

Notice what you are not doing:

  •  No expensive money managers
  • No fancy strategies
  • No exotic, hard to understand investments
  • No weekly, monthly or even yearly management
  • No effort; just keep adding to the pot.

More?  I thought you’d never ask!

The Details:

1)  Avoid fiscally irresponsible people.  Nothing will destroy your wealth faster than letting someone else have access to it.  Fiscally irresponsible people have squandered their money and will happily squander yours.  They will try every dirty trick possible to get their hands on it.  Kick them to the curb.  Look for people who will add to your efforts.  This applies to more than just money.

2)  Avoid Money Managers.  They are expensive at best and will rob you at worst.  Google Bernie Madoff.  Seek advice cautiously and never give up control.  It’s your money and no one will care for it better than you.  But many will try hard to make it theirs.  Don’t let it happen.

3)  Avoid debt.  Never borrow money.  Never carry a credit card balance.  Almost everyone else you meet will be borrowing money to buy this or that.  It will look normal.  You might be mocked.  You don’t want to run with this crowd.  People still refuse to believe I have never had a car payment.

 4)  Save a portion of every dollar you get.  50% is good.   With no debt, this perfectly doable.  Think this is too extreme?  Check out the conversations here:

The most valuable thing you can buy with money is not cars or clothes or vacations or houses.  It is your financial freedom.  So pay yourself first.  Most people spend every cent they make and borrow to spend even more.  This is nuts.  Those who do are slaves to their employers and slaves to their debt holders.  You weren’t raised to be a slave.

5)   The greater the percent of your income you save and invest, the sooner you’ll have F-You money.    The obvious reason this works is that the more you save the more you’ll have.  The less obvious reason is the less you learn to live on the less you’ll need to be financially independent.  See point #9 and

6)   Put this money in the Vanguard Total Stock Market Index Fund (VTSAX).    You want the money you save to work hard for you.  In VTSAX it will.

i.  This is an “index fund.”  You can learn more about exactly what that means anytime, but for our purposes here it means very low cost so you keep more of your money.

ii.      VTSAX is an index fund that invests in stocks.  Stocks, over time, provide the best returns.

iii.      Vanguard is the company that operates the fund and it is the only investment company you need (or should) deal with.  Vanguard’s unique structure means that its interests and yours are the same.  This is unique among investment companies.  Again, if and when you care to, it is easy to learn why and how this is so.

iv.      You might find a fund in another investment company that is a bit cheaper.  But you can’t trust these other companies long-term.  Their interests are not your interest.  If you play with snakes, to quote Dave Ramsey, you’ll eventually get bitten.  Don’t bother.  Stick with Vanguard.

v.      You will hear occasionally how “actively managed” funds beat index funds.  It will seem obviously better to switch to one of these.  It’s not. Don’t.  Very rare is the manager who can consistently outperform the index.  While who they are it is obvious after the fact, it is impossible to know who it will be out of the hundreds at the start.  Even if you were to get lucky, now you have to pay close attention.  They retire, quit, die or simply lose their touch.  Plus they are more expensive.  Don’t bother

vi.      We choose to invest in stocks because, over time, stocks outperform everything else.  They give you the best returns with, using an index fund like VTSAX, the lowest effort and cost.  Never try to pick individual stocks unless you turn pro.  Even then you likely will underperform the index.  Most pros do.

vii.      Owning 100% stocks like this is considered “very aggressive.”  It is, but you have decades ahead.  Market ups and downs don’t matter as long as you avoid panic and stay the course.  Perhaps 40+ years from now you might want to add a Bond Index Fund to smooth out the ups and downs.  Worry about that 40 years from now.

7)  Realize the market and the value of your shares will sometimes drop dramatically.   No worries.  You’ll be holding this fund for 40-50+ years.  During that time the stock market will very likely drop dramatically 4 or 5 times.  There will be real and serious problems that cause it.  Each time people will panic.  Each time they will predict this is the end.  Each time you’ll be hearing Sell!  Sell!  Sell!

If you are smart, you will ignore this.  If you are very smart you will use these times as an opportunity to buy more shares at bargain prices.

As I write this in June 2011 the S&P is trading around 1300.  Two years ago it was at 670 and people were predicting with certainty it would go to zero. Opps.  It doubled.

By the way, there will also be times then the market soars and people will begin to say this is a new age.  Things are different this time.  Things will never go down again.  They, too, are wrong.

Warren Buffett, the greatest investor of my age, said “When others are fearful be greedy.  When others are greedy, be fearful.”  Sound advice.  The wheel always turns.  Things always recover.  If someday the end really does come, it won’t matter anyway.

8) When you can live off the dividends VTSAX provides you are financially free.  Actually a bit sooner.  As this is written, VTSAX is paying a dividend of 1.68%.  Sometimes this will be higher, sometimes lower.  Anytime you can live off it you are financially independent.  But when you can live off of 3-4% per year of your net worth you are also free.

There you have it.  Remember, this advice is for my 19-year-old daughter. (We do things a bit, but not much, differently.)Now, if I can just get her to read it…..

You might also be interested in the case study:  putting-the-simple-path-to-wealth-into-action

Addendum IWhat if you can’t buy VTSAX? Or even Vanguard?

Addendum II: When the time comes and you want to know more about this investing stuff, here you go: Stock Series.

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